Selfish Suicide is selfish is what i've always been told. It is disrespectful to loved ones who care. If loved ones cared, would they not hate to see you suffering? Would they not try to guide you on the right path? So no, Suicide is not selfish, family is. They do not offer help or maybe feel they can't but also do not want to see you go. “I'm not going to help you but I would be sad if you left” . What kind of message is that? Everyone knows that I think it but no one asks. Apparently when people ask “how are you?” they don't actually want to know. Could you imagine if I answered with “well I feel a bit like ending it but other than that, Great!” Their jaw dropping may create a crater large enough to bury me in. I giggled about that, I guess there is some humor in this.